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Men, an entrance into the mind of the mindless
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 Created on 7-1-07
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Men: An entrance to the mind of the mindless
So many good guys are out there, that’s all we ever hear, but where did they all go? I know that almost every guy I’ve dated only likes me because I’ve got a set of boobs. Only one guy was not like that towards me, and he refused to touch me. Either men move too fast for us, asking for sex before we’re ready, or too slow, not kissing you until you’re ready to go all the way. So can anybody actually tell us who the perfect guy is? Seriously, almost every girl out there wants a guy that will hold her when she’s cold, kiss her when she’s mad and love her when she’s hurt. But we all pass it up so easily. Every woman wants a Cinderella story, but there are virtually no Princes for us regular girls left. Plus, if you can turn a pumpkin into a carriage, you will most likely be arrested.
The problem with men is that they don’t know how to express what they feel unless it’s through sex. So, depending on the guy of course, “I want to fuck you” could mean “I love you more than life”. Sometimes, though, guys could mean exactly what they say. Sex is not a way to show love for most guys, they just want to fuck something. Seriously ladies, do you really think all those guys you slept with loved you? The point is to be careful, not every guy is perfect, but almost every guy has a version of how HE can be perfect to you. But unfortunately, guys have their cliques too, which is good and bad. A guy may want a girlfriend that he loves because his friend has one, but another guy may just want to hook up with “some chick” to impress his friends.
So the point is, be careful. The smartest thing you can do is wait until you’re married to have sex, or at least wait until you REALLY love somebody, not just think you’re in love.
So many good guys are out there, that’s all we ever hear, but where did they all go? I know that almost every guy I’ve dated only likes me because I’ve got a set of boobs. Only one guy was not like that towards me, and he refused to touch me. Either men move too fast for us, asking for sex before we’re ready, or too slow, not kissing you until you’re ready to go all the way. So can anybody actually tell us who the perfect guy is? Seriously, almost every girl out there wants a guy that will hold her when she’s cold, kiss her when she’s mad and love her when she’s hurt. But we all pass it up so easily. Every woman wants a Cinderella story, but there are virtually no Princes for us regular girls left. Plus, if you can turn a pumpkin into a carriage, you will most likely be arrested.
The problem with men is that they don’t know how to express what they feel unless it’s through sex. So, depending on the guy of course, “I want to fuck you” could mean “I love you more than life”. Sometimes, though, guys could mean exactly what they say. Sex is not a way to show love for most guys, they just want to fuck something. Seriously ladies, do you really think all those guys you slept with loved you? The point is to be careful, not every guy is perfect, but almost every guy has a version of how HE can be perfect to you. But unfortunately, guys have their cliques too, which is good and bad. A guy may want a girlfriend that he loves because his friend has one, but another guy may just want to hook up with “some chick” to impress his friends.
So the point is, be careful. The smartest thing you can do is wait until you’re married to have sex, or at least wait until you REALLY love somebody, not just think you’re in love.
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Please Login to post comments| On May 16th 2008 muffinbobeat48 Said : | |
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Sorry you got burned. I have an amazing boyfriend. No sex, no asking for anything, we've only kissed. It's grand. |
| On July 1st 2007 prettyJennie1 Said : | |
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I appreciate criticism, even if it's pessimistic, like LokiSeto. I understand that this is not a one size fits all thing, and I hope you all do too. But yeah... ratings and comments are really good and help me know when my writing is good or bad. Men might not like it, but I was in one of those "Boys suck" moods when I wrote this. But I think I make a good point and I hope ya'll do too. |
| On July 1st 2007 LokiSeto Said : | |
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I like it but I'm sorry. That last paragraph... just not it. I know that I am a good guy and all I'm looking for is the right girl. I most likely have her now but if you've read my stories you may think differently. Life is incredibly difficult and so is love and sex. Try to hold out on the sex as much as possible is my advice but don't hold out too long like what is said here. Also this is a bad sterotype... because women can be just like this. Looking for another guy to be their new toy. Sorry for being pestimestic here but advice like this is crap. Advice is only truly helpful one on one. There is no one size fits all advice. I'm someone who gives out alot of it and you really have to choose your words carefully. |
