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SEX: who does it for what?
Philosophy
 Created on 9-2-07
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Back in the olden days , people believed that you should only have sex after marriage. They believed that sex before marriage was a sign of unfaithfulness and girls who weren't still virgins before marriage were sluts and nothing more.
Nowadays ,people don't expect their spouses to be virgins at all.It would be total shock to some people if their spouses were virgins.
Once you think about it, you can see an age decline on sex. How did this come to be is a question rarely asked by ourselves when we have children as young as 12 having children.I have actually heard of a 10-year-old having a child,mostly because the very county i live in has the highest young pregnacies in the entire country.
But i am proud to say that i am still a virgin when almost all my friends would have given it up because of peer presure.I honestly don't know if i can say that in about 6 months from now.
Why do we actually have sex at a young age?If it is because of love, why do we break up?And if lust then how in the olden days could they control it?If peer presure ,why do the ones that pressure us do it?
I came to the conclusion that ones that do it at a young age only do it for pleasure.Pure pleasure and if you have a seemingly better answer please leave a comment telling me.
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Please Login to post comments| On January 6th 2008 Poleknocker10 Said : | |
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Way to go on that one. I am a virgin and I get made fun of because of that. But the pain that occurs because of not waiting till marriage, it so much more. I am not going to experience that if I don't have to. I am really happy that I found a guy that wants me to stay that way and he is not pressuring me. But anyways..Good job on this. |
| On September 3rd 2007 LokiSeto Said : | |
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I lost it because I was curious and I hoped I had found the one girl for me. I mean we were dating a long time and I didn't pressure her... much. Sorry but I have to admit that yes I did pressure her a little but it wasn't bad. Anyways turns out we break up and then get back together quite a few times. We had an off and on again relationship with some sex (once a month) when we were together. But as for your question I'd say yeah it is mostly Hollywood and advertisements. But this didn't happen all at once. It's been quite slowly. I mean I'm sure back in the seventies, sixteen year olds were just starting to have sex. And it's slowly moved on from there. But I have this to say. My first time was quite awkward and it hurt her but I will always remember her and that moment because we both understood what it meant to each other. PS Don't forget that back then women were VERY repressed and could barely do anything. And many were taken advantage of because women had no right. And today there's so many more people around it's easier to hear stories of it. |
| On September 2nd 2007 evnthohedntkno Said : | |
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i lost mine at a young age though not willingly. ive been with three other ppl since. no one ever knew of my first time and most thought i was a virgin til i was 18 when i was with my then fiance. and most still dont know about it. i think peer pressure and hollywood are alot to blame for the losing virginity at a young age thing. |
| On September 2nd 2007 ellies15 Said : | |
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I don't have a answer. I lost mine last weekend. And i believe not having sex before marraige. I don't know why i did it. But all i know is i feel ashamed and worthless now. And trust me there was no pleasure only pain! i'm such a dickhead. an i know lots of girls think the same when they do it. |
