Thoughts On Relationships

So I’m really trying to figure this all out. And when I say “this” I mean life. Well maybe not so much life but relationships. The whole processes of it the whole meaning. And I’m not sure if it will all make scene to you but I like to think it does in my head. We all just want to be happy. A lot of us like someone there to make us happy. Someone to hold. Someone to kiss whenever you want and just call to hear there voice. And who doesn’t want that? Sure you have the few people who like there single life and like being able to do what they want and there’s nothing wrong with that. But at some point in life you want that person to hold.

Then there’s that person you chase. That person you chase after and after time and time again. And sometimes I don’t think you’d ever really say it but….you’d give the world for this person. When they cry you collect the tears. When they laugh you made them. And when going to bed at night there your last thought before you start to dream of them. And your first thought in the morning. But you sit and listen to them and help with the person who makes them cry makes them weep having you collect more of there tears. Sometimes I just don’t understand how they want to be with the wrong person so badly. You wish they’d think how wonderful it would be with the one who dreams of them, who makes them laugh when she doesn’t have to and the one who would never make them cry.

Maybe we like the pain? Maybe we like it cause it gives us something to do? Lets face it a lot of times we’d rather watch a big dramatic action movie then another sweet love story where everything is perfect. It leaves nothing to the imagination and at times is cut and dry. I’m not sure. Or maybe it’s cause we hide our emotions. Lets face it being rejected is possibly one of the worst things that can happen to a person. Especially coming from a person you care for. So I ask you this question? Do you keep chasing? Or do we settle for less?