well you wont get over it...it will always be there....but if he left then he lost a lot more then he thought...you shouldnt be treated this way...its not rite....theres other guys that do that but theres one guy for you...he'll come soon enough
From a guy's point of view, or at least mine, I know it is very hard because I had a girl do that with me and it took me a LONG time to get over her. I think it just takes time and finding someone new to help you get over your grief. Even after having sex numerous times after her, I still think about her but I'm not broken over her like I was after it happened.
Gee, the bottom two were sure helpful.
Anyways, the best thing to do is to try to move on. Busy yourself, hang out with friends. Maybe even find a new crush. Obviously this experience crushed you, and I completely understand how you feel, I had my "innocence" taken at 14. As much as it hurts, you need to admit to yourself that he used you. If you need further advice, don't hesitate on sending me a message.