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Just need to vent a little
Ok, don't need to read this, or reply or anything else... You don't even need to be nice hahaha!!
I was just reading a chainmail, which I don't do often, about 'things girls should do for guys' or something along those lines... Things that will make your guy smile... Anywayz It was saying something about being decisive because guys can't read minds or whatever... My guy isn't decisive either. When we see a movie, I want to see a movie HE wants to see... Isn't that what every guy wants, a chick who wants to see HIS movie?? He wont tell me what he wants to see and insists I pick a movie I want to see. But we've done that the last however many times already! That and I don't have anymore movies I want to see... Why can't he just pick?!?!?!?! Ok, enough of that... Next It says something about surprising him... I'm always giving him random little notes/letters, writing him love poems on pretty paper, turning up on his door step when he can't leave the house. And it's always ME asking if he wants to do anything. He rarely calls me up randomly or turns up at my house just because (a whole ONCE!), and he doesn't write me love notes/letters/poems or anything. He gave me some flowers during the first month, though, mainly to say sorry for some reason. Usually I don't care but my stupid friends always going on about getting random jewelery or whatever. My boyfriend couldn't even be bothered to surprise me for Christmas, he thinks I'm totally material... Like, get me something useful or something that I want. NO that's what family's for. I've told him that... I've told him I want it to be a surprise, I don't know what I want, I want him to have put some thought into it so I know it's special. Even just a Christmas card atleast. In the end he took me into a store and asked me what I wanted... He only really got it for me because I got him something. Not much, but something sentimental, which I don't think he really appreciated that much anywayz... And I handmade the card too... And as soon as he learnt of that he was all like "Awe, now I gotta get you a card!" Which obviously, as I said earlier, he DIDN'T! He couldn't just get me one later because he's gona away for the holidays... So NO surprise, NO sentimental value, NO card... ONWARDS The email said something dressing up nicely for your guy every now and then. I try but he only ever really says "You look good in anything/everything" which is what all girls love to hear... But when I make an effort to look nice, just ONCE it would be nice to get a good reaction like "WOW" *jaw drop*. Ok, maybe not that dramatic, but something other than "You look nice" (Only when in response to "Do you like it?"). I give up trying and just wear such daggy clothes, you'd swear I'm wearing PJ's or something. I really shouldn't be complaining because atleast he says I look nice, but in the whole TWO years we've been together, not once have a got a "WOW" from him when I try dress nicely, or sexy, or pretty, or whatever... He NEVER (never meaning once ever) gives a reaction until I ask him... Ok, enough repitition, I'm sure you get the point.... Anywayz, I was doing stuff inbetween each paragraph, so I don't remember the rest of what I was going to rant about, but I'm sure it was pointless and boring... Word...
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