hmm how close of "friends" are they? you should sit down and talk to him about it.. if he isn't willing to do something to work on it with you then he isn't worth your time! and if you guys decide on something to help make you feel better make sure his friend knows about it too.. i was in the same situation once and the chick found out that i did not trust her around him and she decided to hit on him.. well the first time he told me about it and i kicked her ass.. the second time he decided to go along with it and cheated on me.. i kicked her ass and my best friend (also a guy) kicked his for doin that to me.. men can be jerks!
ok there is a couple things you can do.. you can tell him that if he wants to be with you he had better act on it before you go find a guy who does and IS ready for a relationship (yes i know.. he is a great guy.. well there are other great guys.. maybe the one for you is still out there waiting or maybe waiting for you to get over this guy) or you can say whatever, have a blast being single and be his friend.. when he is ready he will come for you.. it is kind of hard to say what to do since i do not know you or the guy.. wish i could help more
I kind of need help on my situation here. so if u can help ill really appriciate it. but anyways here is the story. A guy that i lyk told me that he lyks me 2 and he asked me out 2 da mvoies and i went w/ him and a whole bunch of friends and it was really fun and all except that he wasnt really paying attention 2 me butby him just paying attention 2 da movie kind of made me wonder y did he ask me out in the first place if he isnt going 2 pay attention 2 me. so since i kind of got upset i hung out w/ this other guy that i kind of kno and my friends and i felt horrible because of the way he was treating me so this guy was tellin me that he must be gay or something cuz i mean come on if im at the movies w/ a cute grl ill pay attention 2 her. anyways afterwards he came up 2 me and he grabbed my hand and yea i didnt mind but then some guy there asked if i was his gf and he said yes but i wasnt really sure cuz of the way he treated me during the movie but den i told him wat had happened and he said srry and i told him it was ok and he knew that it wasnt ok that he was trying 2 win me something 2 make it up 2 me. later we all go 2 this diner 2 eat n when i leave he kisses me on the lips but im still confused 2 as if he is my bf or not lyk if we r officially bf/gf so thats wat my problem is becuase the thing is my friend told me that a kiss doesnt always mean ur officially bf/gf it could be just because so thats y im confused. anyways if u think can help me reply or message me or by myspace talk 2 me...www.myspace.com/bibi15. please help and tell me wat u think of this situation. thanks!
well sometimes it is hard to tell.. i had a friend who was messing with some guy's head and i couldn't even tell.. the best way to do it is to straight up tell her that is she likes you then great but if she is messing with you then she shouldn't waste her time
I need help....k I was goin out wit this REALLY great guy nd all of a sudden unexpectidly he broke up wit me and at the worst time possible too nd i really miss him nd i really fell for him and he said he still likes me nd thinks im beautiful he just doesnt want a girlfriend right now! so wat do i do cuz i miss him a ton!!