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I don't know how to bring it up with my bf...

Ok so I just started to get back into wicca but my bf is Muslim and I really don't know how to bring it up in a conversation with him. I know that I want to tell him in person but it might be a couple more weeks till we can see eachother. There is a few other things I don't really know how to tell him or how he'll react or anything. I really just don't know what to do at this point. He wants us to move in together but I still have two years of school left and he said it was fine and that he'd just get a place near me, he also got a really good paying job and told me just today that he's going to try his hardest to keep it for us so he can help me whenever and to support me. He's really good to me and I don't want to keep anything from him but I just don't want him to freak or anything. So really is there anything I can do like how to bring it up when I see him again or anything?!?


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At 03:38 pm leftbehhind Voted Down Show Comment
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At 02:53 pm APoeticVampire Said :
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No he doesn't...and who said it was an internet relationship? I just said he lives a few hours away.
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In response to APoeticVampire At 08:04 am Lowerdeck Said :
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Internet relationship???? You got us all worked up for nothing.

Seriously though, unless you want to be a Muslim yourself... don't date one. Unless he's willing to abandon it, which isn't likely. They're practically stuck for life.
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At 02:24 am leftbehhind Said :
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i know how you feel i'm one of the only wiccans in my town. Does he know that you used to practice before?
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At 01:47 am APoeticVampire Said :
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lol if only haha I'm not that good with the whole magic thing only very little things i.e. have him call me even when he's told me he's busy hehe I love that one and other minimal things of the such. And for the town HA! yeah right! I may be one of VERY few wiccans and he lives a few hours away soo I don't really know what it's like there.
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At 11:29 pm RalRasper Said :
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tell him that if he cant deal with your broom riding ass you will turn him into a tampon
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At 11:28 pm beezyslayer Said :
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wow, wtf is wrong with the town you live in? wiccans and muslims? thats weird
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At 06:27 pm Kdanae88 Said :
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And yah-- blah blah you shouldnt have to change yourself to be with him.. but relationships are about compromise.. think about that..
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In response to APoeticVampire At 06:27 pm Kdanae88 Said :
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Well the answer to this is simple then.. if you love him and dont want to hurt him.. then stop what your doing.. i mean if you love him as much as you say you do- then you wouldnt have started practicing wiccan again.
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At 03:11 pm APoeticVampire Said :
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I do love him and he loves me it's just his brother is going through a tough time right now and so we're both helping him and now my bf is hurting cause his bro is hurting so I'm also helping him so we haven't really had any time to oursleves to talk about this and I don't want to put anymore stress on him than he already has.
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At 02:57 am JohnnyDaBOMB Said :
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YOU NEED JESUS
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At 10:33 pm Kdanae88 Said :
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i completely agree with CassieZ... you might take this hard bc its not what you wanna hear.
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In response to APoeticVampire At 10:32 pm CassieZ Said :
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for all u know, that is helpful... just cause its not what you wanna hear doesnt mean it wont help u in the long run.
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In response to Kdanae88 At 10:25 pm moosegurl01 Said :
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yeah just tell him if it works then great..if it does'nt there is some1 out there for every1
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At 10:20 pm Kdanae88 Said :
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I agree with treespirit... dont hide this from him- it will just upset him more.
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