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Created: 06/04 09:50 pm

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Why do some ex-girlfriends insist on sticking around?!

Ok, I got this major problem that I seem to be on my own with.. My husband's sister is friends w/2 of my husband's ex-girlfriends.. apparently, they've been friends for a while.. I tried to accept them when I first started dating my husband but one made a move on him and the other thinks it's perfectly appropriate to discuss her former sex life with my man! Therefore, that friendship thing didn't last long but now, my sis-in-law thinks I'm being unreasonable to not only refuse their friendship, but refuse to "let" my husband be their friend, too! I've talked and talked and talked my head off about how unreasonable she's being but she doesn't get it! Help!!!


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At 10:13 pm jenni24014 Said :
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yeah, i do think he has the control.. and he knows me too well and knows how to push my buttons.. i've tried talking to him but when i bring it up, he just says, "why do we have to keep talking about the past?" and.. "why do you always complain about me?" and.. "you think i'm such a loser".. then, i feel guilty that i'm bringing down his self-esteem and he wins again.. and i end up hating myself because i CAN'T win no matter what i do.. he's not even hanging out with them anymore, but his sis is pushing the issue and he has no problem whatsoever being friends with them but i do.. my best friend ain't coming back and he was all i had.. i moved over an hour away from home and from all my old friends.. now, i don't know anybody and having 3 kids makes it impossible for me to have any friends.. i'm still so bitter about what happened with my bff.. just cuz he was a guy i dated.. for a week!.. but i'm supposed to be ok with the girl who took his virginity and the girl who hit on him.. yeah right!
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At 10:00 pm jenni24014 Said :
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i can't.. i don't do it to my husband because it makes him uncomfortalbe.. so, it's not fair he do it to me.. OR his family.. what's good for the goose is good for the gander.. i already gave up my best friend from high school for my husband to have him die a year later and this is still being pushed on me.. i don't want this pushed on me no matter who i have to thank!
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At 09:55 pm jenni24014 Said :
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that doesn't help... :(
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At 09:53 pm stevten Said :
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idk man my girl just left me 2 day and now my ex wants to get with me
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