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He Can't Trust Me.

I lost my virginity to my best guy friend Steve the other night at a party and people found out and told my boyfriend before I could tell him. He forgave me but he had a party and he didn't do anything [which was good]. We had an argument tonight because I said I was going to another party and he said he couldn't trust me. He dumped me. He said he made a mistake by doing that. I don't think he gets it. I don't want him now. If he has trust issues, it's not my problem. He says he loves me. I can't love him back. I don't. He wants us to be together again, but I don't. Any advice?
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At 12:45 pm fadedembers123 Said :
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you cant blame him for having trust issues but i have had this same problem before. do you love your best friend? maybe it was ment to be this way. if not then you should try to work it out. but i can tell you right now. you relationship with you boy friend AND best friend will never be the same. you boyfriend (or ex) will always doubt you and you will doubt him as well.not knowing if hell do the same as you did.if you and your best friend arnt in love and it was just a mistake, there will be a kinda akwardness in your relationship togeather that never goes away. you just have to ask your self if the pain is worth it.
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At 05:17 pm lardpiles Said :
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wait. ur a dude? as in ur either gay or bi? OHHHHH. well i thought about what i said earlier and i think i was a little too harsh, ur probably messed too because of it. sooo you should either: a. Tell him that you guys don't want to be together (and take some times to 'renew yourself') b. get back with him and tell him that you're sorry and that you want him back and gain his trust back again. c. blame it on him until he starts to hate you. i guess there's other options but that's all i can think of. it's easy to tell who was wrong and who's the forgiving one. i got mad because that's happening to me right now. my girlfriend cheated on me with my bestfriend. it's even a chat. sorry for calling you a bitch, i thought you were a girl. ha.
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At 04:59 pm 0GuitarGirl0 Said :
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Dear Jason,
You know full well it was wrong, right? You apologized, right? Are you guys still sore with each other, or no? And why, if you still love him [as the message sunkist posted said] did you do that behind his back?

Would YOU be okay with Kevin doing it to you? Would you still trust him after HE went out parting and lost his virginity to some other guy?

I think that Kevin deserves better than a cheater, maybe you need to think about things before you try another relationship. Even if it's with Kevin. Savvy?

Love, Me.
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At 04:10 pm janisa92 Said :
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he has trust issues cuz u messed around on him so dats ur fault if u dont want 2 b wit him cuz of dat its ur fault cuz of wat u did i mean seriously would u b able 2 trust him if da situation were reversed
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At 03:27 pm CassieZ Said :
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Yeah, I agree with everyone else.. you cant blame him for having trust issues when you had sex behind his back... it's not going to go away at the snap of a finger, that shit hurts.. it takes time. How would you like it if he did that to you? How would u feel?
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In response to individulsong At 02:28 pm koolweirdo Said :
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wonderfully said!
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At 03:47 am lardpiles Said :
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ummmm as for YOU the creature of this chat: it's not his fault bitch, it's yours. of course he doesn't trust you, why should he? u slept around behind his back. ur lucky he was okay with it. and now you broke his heart AGAIN??? what's wrong with you? do you even love him??? ur lucky he would take you back after that. tell him that he's better off.
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At 03:46 am lardpiles Said :
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hey i like that song
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In response to goodgurl8504 At 03:45 am jac41190 Said :
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damnit girl, get out of my head
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At 03:44 am jac41190 Said :
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YOUS A HO.
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