ok so me and my brother are really close,, but ever since he got a job...we havnt gotten to do anything and when he gets home he really doesnt wanna do anything...i wanna spend more time with him...what do i do??
I am having the same problem with my 11yr old cousin he hates me because I have a career now and don't have time to drive two hours to hang out with him. Its hard on both ends the most important thing for you to do is to let your brother know that you miss your time together and that your glad/proud for/of him for having a job. He works longs days so don't expect him to be overly ecstatic to hang out when he gets home wait for a day off or a weekend plan it with him ahead of time. You won't be getting the same amount of time you used to have with him but if you approach it like a mature person hopefully he will really see how it affect you. make sure you approach it maturely, without yelling or crying or screaming like my cousin does because that makes me not want to be around him at all.
Well first off family is first...so you need to talk to him i know how you feel i bearly get to see my brothers and sisters because they're to busy with there own life and it really sucks but you need to talk to him ask him if there's any way that he would beable to spend time with you set up a date with him so he knows b/c its hard to say hey lets go somewhere today because its to soon and he's gonna say he's to tired...so he knows when he will have to be awake lol...and maybe you guys will beable to get that time and if your kind of scared to talk to him write him a little note about how you feel and you really miss him and it would be nice to go out sometime soon...
you should tell him how u feel. even though its goona take away some of his time, it is up to yall both to get together. at least he has a job. now he gets to by u stuff!lol