Advice session 2 replies i've been dating this guy for 2 years and it's the best releationship i have ever had..he don't cheat, treats me awsome, listens..and the whole thing..anyways my friend of 9 years wants me to chose between them..what should i do..i really don't want to..should i try to convince the friend of 9 years not to chose..b/c i don't want anyone left behind From: darklilangle18 ________________________________________ Send Me More Questions For Advice! My answer: do you really want to be friends with someone that wants to make you unhappy? I’m sorry to answer your question with another question but that is what you need to think about. Do you truly feel you are in love with this “guy” or do you think its not going to last. You need to think about that… heres a qusetion why do you want to give advice so bad? From: badurina My answer: because I have NOTHING BETTER TO DO, next question please… I never told my family about my relaitionships, but I want them to know I just don't want my mum to freak out like she always did with my older sister!, and I also don't know how to tell her 'cause whenever I try like to start talking about my "best friend" she'll get pretective and start to ask qeustion arfter qeustion, and I would like to talk about him and tell her what's going on but she won't stop qeustioning me! From: animaniacash My answer: I feel like I’m gonna get this a lot. Your going to have to tell her eventually, so you might want to tell her now. It will weigh down on you until you DO tell her, so make it quick. However, if its something serious like sex, or a guy abused you, your definitely going to want to tell someone else, like a relative you know you can trust, until you can build up the confidence to tell your mother/father. But if your being abused now you NEED to tell her now.