I don't know what to think who is more broken me for no longer being able to. or them for pretending they have to. Tears make me nervouse always have. what do they say. we fear what we don't understand...
hey everyone...this conversation sounded just about as close to sane as ill get without searching,
so about crying...
i hate it.
i really dont like crying,
it makes me feel helpless and all that.
It's a natural response to psychological and physiological tensions. Frankly, that release in most ways it is beneficial, and deciding not to can exacerbate matters in many instances. It doesn't fix problems per se, but it's less damaging in effect than other avenues that include squashing down the impulse. There are others however that have an extreme aversion to crying and therefore condition themselves to be miserable psychologically once they actually break down in that manner. Essentially it depends on the person, but it is a natural biological response for our species, frequently with socially communicative motives, whether subconscious or not, and based on that I see no basis for the stigma we have laid on top of it. But I must note that is entirely hypocritical of me since I detest crying on my part. So in no way am I exempt from that absurdity and social unacceptability.