Exactly, chillin with gravestones is closer to respect than pretending it's not there... Untrimmed shrubbery is a must when playing in a cemetery... If they're trimmed, it's just not fun... Also jump out and scare is pretty classic in a cemetery too... Even better when the victim doesn't even know they're playing... haha! But usually, just chillaxin pretty much makes the cut for those cemetery visits...
My reasoning was that I was visiting the dead way more often than any of their neglectful families were, so... and yeah, H&GS is a classic, especially with untrimmed shrubbery.