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In the summer of 2002 at age 11 I was sent to a college as part of the Kids in College program. Dr. Charleston, who was a science professor gave out a test and said, “Follow the instructions exactly and get done as quickly as possible.” Regardless of loathing my environment and the bullshit academics, I felt the need to blow the rest of the class out of the water and I skipped over the introduction explaining how to properly set up your name and date at the top and proceeded to fly through the rest of the paper to get ahead of the rest of the class. As I was dashing about the lecture room with a few other students, I noted 12 or so who were still stuck on reading the paper, entirely bored. After several other minutes had passed, the rest of the kids that were up with me, independently trying to finish the mindless marathon, finished and returned to their seats. I was left alone, frustratingly wondering how they got through with it so fast. Then I got to the last number and suddenly realized why. Once I was done I sat down at my seat and the professor then had asked if I would read aloud the first sentence at the top. “Read through the list before you begin.” He then asked me what number 30 stated. “Do not execute numbers 1-29. Sign your name at the top and stay in your seat.” I then asked “Yeah, but did I get everything on the list correct?” As I was prepared to leave at the end of the hour he came up to me and whispered something to the effect of, “Ambition should always be made to yield to patience and humility. Your intelligence as a person is of little value if you cannot learn from and respect those wiser than you. Your ability to listen is what will reward you in this field, not arrogance, for there is always something more to understand.” That really stuck with me as a kid, and that is why I love good teachers. Does anyone else have memory where an educator or mentor taught something of value
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In response to numbbbb0z At 10:55 pm AlexINTJ Said :
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I can't remember what college Charleston taught at, and he's probably retired now if he hasn't already kicked the bucket. 6 years ago at the other end of the country. That would be an idea though, if I could manage it. I certainly would want to voice my appreciation. He'd probably remember me as the idiotic person I was, though :) But I suppose it is certainly worth the effort to try, regardless.
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At 10:48 pm numbbbb0z Said :
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Maybe when you write your novel, autobiography, science report, or anything you can dedicate it to the lesson he taught you. Maybe going to your school and asking for his personal records/whereabouts?
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At 10:45 pm AlexINTJ Said :
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I still feel slightly guilty, however. I never actually expressed my appreciation for his attempts to teach something to me. As far as I can recollect, I was a huge pain in the ass to this fellow...and probably the rest of the teachers. I guess in my credit I could state that I was young, but still. At least I can remember it now, and its significance, considering how things have the ability to escape me.
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In response to numbbbb0z At 10:42 pm AlexINTJ Said :
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How can you not have a crush on a teacher who is able to stick her head in a trash can and scream in front of a lot of kids? That's bold. I can see how that would be a lesson in perspective.
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At 10:42 pm stitchchick92 Said :
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We did that in third grade, and everyone actually followed the instructions.
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At 10:40 pm numbbbb0z Said :
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Then 3 years later (I failed sixth grade) her husband was my Social Studies teacher. Lucky bastard.
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At 10:39 pm numbbbb0z Said :
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I kinda had a crush on her, too.
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At 10:38 pm numbbbb0z Said :
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Well, this wasn't intended as a lesson, and I never really talked to her about it, but when I was in Grade Five we had a substitute teacher. And since the ST is new, all the kids raise hell and yaddayadda. Well, she was sick of not being paid attention to, so she stuck her head in the class trash can and screamed. The room was silent, no one said a word, and were looking at her, then she continued on with the lesson. When you're in school, your attitude is the end all and the way you act, being judged, ridiculed, the "cliches" and clicks of it all is what make you, unfortunately. I was terrified of being a "shut out", "outcast" or "weirdo" (still am, kinda), but her doing that made me feel easier about not taking things so seriously. If she could stick her head in a trash can in a room ful of judgmental kids, then I could write the most personal poetry and be myself in a town full of those same judgmental kids.
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At 10:34 pm numbbbb0z Said :
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In my mind I'm thinking this is another chain letter but it's actually understandable and true with people today 6 years later. Wow.
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At 10:30 pm tallman5000 Said :
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ahhh,............what?
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