Something terrible happened in someones life that the person can't just "Get Over It" Somehow they were abused, phycically (sp?) and/or emotionaly. Or that person went through trama when they were young and messed something up in their mind. I'm guessing you're life is perfect and you think everyone should be as happy as you. But some people are'nt. Get used to it. Accept peoples differences.
All emo's real or fake need to join the marine core and learn some self discipline. Drowning in a pity pool is not a way for anyone to live. Get over it!