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What do you do when your boyfriend/baby's father's family hate you??

I'm going to give you all the whole story, and it's long...so. April 2006 I start dating this guy (Boyd). A week later I'm pregnant. I met his parents one time before I knew I was pregnant at a bar, because his band was playing a show. I was slightly intoxicated. Boyds parents were filming the show, and took a shot of the crowd. I didn't know who they were, they didn't know who I was. They stopped the camera on me and I drunkenly proclaimed "Hi! I'm dating the drummer!" (He was only 19, I obviously 21) Then they were like oh we're his parents. Never met them again. Me and Boyd broke up in May(Well, he broke up with me). I "dated" three of his friends. The second one he himself talked me into dating. The third one stuck around, and they became enemies. During the time me and that guy were dating my mom called Boyds parents and told them I was having his son. Me and that guy continued dating after I had the baby until June 2007. Boyd came back around with promises to love me. So I left the other guy, who I had way too many problems with anyways, and that guy got pissed. Boyd's family owns a sub shop which he works in, and the guy went up there starting shit, after he had already found Boyd at a stop light and punched him in the face through a rolled down car window. So Boyds family tells the guy to leave. Boyd breaks up with me, again, saying its too much drama. I give the other guy a chance again, doesnt work out, and Boyd comes back yet a third time. We've been together since the beginning of September, new record for us (ha). His family has not met the baby and I just want all of my son's family to love and appreciate him. I don't care if they want to hate me, just not the baby!


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At 10:30 pm lisaljb Said :
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I don't blame you for being unsure about all of this. All I can tell you is bring your boyfriend with you, and I'm hoping he will defend you and the baby of course. Be strong, have faith in you and the baby, don't let all of them hold you back, don't let them force you to the total point of breakdown. If anything, they should be breakingdown after realizing how horribly they treated their grandson and the grandson's mother. Sometimes I like to live by the phrase "Fuck it." It can bring you through, and push out the what you thought was hard, but apparently became the weak.
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In response to suicidalslug At 10:29 pm gradesuck Said :
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Dead beat dad a.Well make him tell him to do more are your leaving 40 is nothing when it comes to babys like what a few packs of pappers and like 2 out fits
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In response to juliemarie1022 At 10:24 pm suicidalslug Said :
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Thanks.
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In response to lisaljb At 10:24 pm suicidalslug Said :
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What if they freak out? What if they tell me to leave? His sister works there too, and she also hates me, and wanted to kick my ass when my ex-bf was trying to fight her brother.
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At 10:22 pm juliemarie1022 Said :
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Well its always hard being a new mom !! and wanting the family to like you!! i was dating my babys father 3 years off and on and got pregnant, and that was hard!! u just have to stick in there it all works out the drama advencually stops it did with me i am dating one of his friends also we have been together for a year and were are getting married in may!! and my babys father is not so happy but it all works out!! give it time hang in there! all you can do is love you baby!! people will come around goood luck julie
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At 10:22 pm suicidalslug Said :
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The baby will we a year old in the beginning of January.
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In response to gradesuck At 10:22 pm suicidalslug Said :
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We are together, but the most he's done is given me 40$ for winter baby clothes and changed maybe 5 poopy diapers.
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At 10:19 pm lisaljb Said :
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If I read the story right, you need to have them meet the baby, and get this all over with, so you won't be wondering for the rest of your life what you should do, just go for it, force meet them if you have to. They'll need to get their patetic act together and meet their own grandson. And also try to make peace to the mother of their grandson which of course meaning you.
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In response to suicidalslug At 10:19 pm gradesuck Said :
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Well is the dad steping in
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At 10:18 pm capnjerm Said :
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wow...it was just a joke... glad to here yer not emo tho.... i hate those fagots...
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In response to capnjerm At 10:17 pm suicidalslug Said :
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Sorry, I'm not emo and I have a son to take care of.
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In response to gradesuck At 10:16 pm suicidalslug Said :
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Good point. It's possible he is better off without them around. I just don't know.
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In response to suicidalslug At 10:15 pm gradesuck Said :
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Well my mom's side of the family is super poor and my dad's side is wealthy and my grandma on my dad's side act's like a complete snob and non of us grand children like her and she hates it so imagine your kid saying all man this blows i got to go see them i hate them when he's 15 like me
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At 10:13 pm capnjerm Said :
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kill yourself....
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In response to sochula777 At 10:13 pm suicidalslug Said :
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But that sucks. There has to be something I can do about it?
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