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This is weird but I want to ask?

When is the right time to have another baby? I want another little one but I don't know when is the right time to have another one if you have lost one.
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At 07:47 pm Reray1 Said :
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sorry I was letting you in to my problem
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In response to cmmtx At 05:39 pm Reray1 Said :
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I have 3 other kids yes I spend all my time with my kids I am married my daughter was 1year old when the good lord took her no I am not trying to take her place not at all my kids are different and know everything that happen and if I was to have another baby it would know that he or she had a big sister that is watching over them.
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At 05:33 pm Reray1 Said :
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my heart is broke but I have other kids to love and I know my baby is in a better place. I hate that she is gone but I love my kids that is all I have wanted to be is a mom.
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At 05:32 pm cmmtx Said :
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I would suppose the answer to your question lays somewhere with what situation you are in; what situation your newborn will be brought in, currently (or shall we look ahead nine to ten months from now?). To answer the question of your situation, may I ask a few questions?

1)How many kids do you have now? 2)Will you have plenty of time to care for all your children, healthily? (A child should be wholly focused on, so that his maximum potential in this world is met, for his/her survival benefit) 3)Are you financially prepared for another child? 4)Are you mentally prepared? 5)Are you a single, married, divorced, or dating mother? 6)You have lost a baby before? If so, maybe the desire for a newborn is a temporary desire to replace the one lost (quite a possibility. I know this from experience. For my ex-wife and I lost our only newborn, at birth)

By answering these questions, and others I may bring up afterwards, we can try to evaluate your state, and come to a closer logical conclusion to this thread.
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At 05:31 pm Reray1 Said :
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I have been with my husband for 7 years and going on 6 years of marriage and had 4 kids well I mean 3 mow oldest is 9 and 5 and almost 3
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At 05:30 pm morbidangel585 Said :
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i have no idea. my heart would be broken
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At 05:29 pm Reray1 Said :
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if it was you what would you do?
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In response to Reray1 At 05:29 pm morbidangel585 Said :
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i would say when you feel ready for it
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At 05:28 pm Reray1 Said :
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my son is almost 3years old and I just think it is the right time but on the other hand don't know.
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At 05:26 pm Reray1 Said :
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the big dill is my daughter has be gone for almost a year and I don't want to feel like I am rushing things. I just don't know when is the right time.
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