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I would suppose the answer to your question lays somewhere with what situation you are in; what situation your newborn will be brought in, currently (or shall we look ahead nine to ten months from now?). To answer the question of your situation, may I ask a few questions?
1)How many kids do you have now? 2)Will you have plenty of time to care for all your children, healthily? (A child should be wholly focused on, so that his maximum potential in this world is met, for his/her survival benefit) 3)Are you financially prepared for another child? 4)Are you mentally prepared? 5)Are you a single, married, divorced, or dating mother? 6)You have lost a baby before? If so, maybe the desire for a newborn is a temporary desire to replace the one lost (quite a possibility. I know this from experience. For my ex-wife and I lost our only newborn, at birth)
By answering these questions, and others I may bring up afterwards, we can try to evaluate your state, and come to a closer logical conclusion to this thread.
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