At 08:16 pm lisaljb Said :	0
	A lot of girls are like this, kinda like their going through a phase, they start getting interested in guys, and all they talk about is guys, but hey relax, give her some time to hang with her bf and whoever, and you should hang with other people, she can still be your friend, just she changed a few things about herself or is going through a phase. You're not the only one out there, some of my friends do this too, but I let it be, and hang with other people.

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	At 07:44 pm Schmuckula Said :	0
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	At 07:08 pm BloodyTears15 Said :	+1
	eh well fine w.e i dont really care but once her god damn boyfriend breaks her heart i aint gonna be there

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	At 06:59 pm Schmuckula Said :	0
	Additionally, a friendship maintained out of obligation over need isn't going to last forever. Now, you say you've been through a lot together, but that could mean you either feel compelled to loyalty because of it, or value the friendship more because of shared experience. The latter should last longer, but as both of you become stronger, bond your experiences form could lessen.

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	At 06:53 pm Schmuckula Said :	0
	Anyway, the only thing I am sure if is that if she isn't around as much as you need her to, then you might as well find a new best friend. Whether she's acted untoward to you or not, your need of her seems greater than her's of you, so you should try to find someone or something else to fill the void.

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	At 06:52 pm Schmuckula Said :	0
	Well, if she's not terribly abusive or disloyal in the sense of sharing secrets and bad mouthing you, you might be able to justify some mistreatment by her with a referral to your feelings with her; if they are strong and she's not too bad, why leave. Normally, I'd be more sure of myself in praising or denouncing, most often denouncing, you or her, but both your feelings and her actions are normal to me.

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	At 06:46 pm BloodyTears15 Said :	+1
	i dont no how to accept it...it feels like shes using me it jsut sees like shes changed so much i dont really no if i do what her for a friend but weve been through alot together....

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	At 06:44 pm Schmuckula Said :	0
	She's a friend so long as you can accept your new role in her mind, if you can't, then she's not.

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	At 06:43 pm Schmuckula Said :	0
	Presently, I believe that she's moving on from the close friendship status but wants to remain casual friends more as a comfort for herself, and might not want to invest time with anyone over her boy friend.

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	At 06:37 pm BloodyTears15 Said :	+1
	no im not jealous i dont care she was just my best friend n then guys come along n she only cares bout them picks them over me all the time like we hung out everyday when she lived around here intill all these guys came along n then she hardly talks to me

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