i'm just gonna say one thing and leave cuz it's really none of y business anyway. it's one thing to give people advice and help them figure out what to do but you can't interfere with their lives because you have a personal grudge against someone. and arguing over the internet will never ever ever ever never never ever ever solve ANYTHING! just let them get on with their miserable little lives and let them make mistakes on their own. and who are we to talk about other peoples private lives? i've seen a thousand things like this on the site and none of them ever change anything. hell i was this basically last year. badger guy i don't know anything about ur situation but just use extreme caution trusting anyone online. it's so easy to lie it's almost hard not to for some. that's all i gotta say. be cool to yourselves. peace