Ok I am 18 but since I was 12 I have dated the same girl off and on, It always ended cuz I got scared since she was almost two years younger than me....she has been with her new bf for a few months, I want her back so bad....but we can talk and when it seems I am gettin close she acts like she doesnt wanna talk to me anymore....but then will text me a few days later. almost like she dont know what to do. how do I help change her mind?