In response to browneyes33 At 11:05 pm sweetlilsam Said :	0
	although, if the situation is that bad....visitation wouldn't be granted. Even more so with hospital bills for proof of, which in the courts eyes, is considered neglect. And I wasn't saying she should leave him, but giving him an option can maybe change his way of thinking...that's the only point I was making. I have no idea what their situation is...which is why I said, that's what I would do...

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	In response to sweetlilsam At 09:46 pm browneyes33 Said :	+1
	yes but you must remember hes the father and we don't know all the circumstances.. If it's as bad as it appears her making him leave would only give him the chance to get visitation ..which would leave him alone with their child at least every other weekend..Be smart hun..think everything through

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	In response to eric101106 At 09:43 pm browneyes33 Said :	+1
	I understand your anger I would be more than pissed.. OK I had no idea he did drugs or anything like that..I assumed it was an accident which could have happened to anyone. We make mistakes as parents . my son climb in to my daughters baby bed when he was 2 I didn't even know he had gotten out of his bed..Well when he was climbing out he got his foot hung in the bars and fell twisting his foot and broke it.. I felt awful for well ever It still bothers me thinking about it..It wasn't my fault it was an accident but as a parent you feel everything could have been prevented ..Parents are not super hero's..Anyway if he's doing drugs which could have impaired his judgement being the reason he forgot to lock the door putting your child in danger I really don't know what I would do.. Only you know what kind of a father he is to his child.. Good luck!!

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	In response to eric101106 At 07:57 pm sweetlilsam Said :	0
	well that right there should've told you he wasn't responsible enough to watch the kid in the first place. Before you made it seem like it was an accident, which is why they are called accidents. If he's one of those "fathers" who do nothing and are irresponsible, give him an option. either he straightens out or you and your kid are gone. You can't rely on him anyway when it comes to your child unless he gets his act together and starts acting more like an adult. Well, that's what I would do anyway!

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	At 07:27 pm eric101106 Said :	0
	Yes he is no longer allowed to watch our child. How do I know next timee he won't be focused on the baby somethig worse could happen. Let me tell all the mothers my kid coulda died today and i dont say that for drama when i looked at the walker when i got home the back part where it pops in place was almost completely out had it poped out completely kid woulda been in a morgu right now. damn right i don't want him even near us. I know its not something we should break apart over but im thinking about it. rigt now he is probably over at his uncles smoking weed and chilling forgetting about us anyway and he won't come home he needs to grow up and stop thinking about himself...

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	At 07:23 pm eric101106 Said :	0
	yes he is the father..

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	In response to 500nets At 07:14 pm browneyes33 Said :	+1
	Umm.. I was thinking he's the Father..Is he the father?

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	At 06:37 pm 500nets Said :	+1
	if it was his fault, that's it, that's all there is to it, screw having a decent conversation or trying not to offend him. We mothers have this thing called "mothers intuition". it is when something might or has happened to our child and our instincts kick in and advise us to do something or say something that is not very pleasant to someone else. Oh well, you know what your main priority is, your goal in life, you are sure of it i am certain, and it is not to avoid offending someone. I know your boyfriends forgetfulness is not worth an emergency room trip. That in my book is unacceptable, and if you can't count on him to keep his priorities in order, he can't be trusted with the child.

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	At 06:15 pm sweetlilsam Said :	0
	Honestly, things happen. That very well could've happened when you were watching him. We can't always pay attention. Thank God the baby is fine...and that will show your bf to be more careful the next time (I hope anyway) But, just let it go... tell him to just be more careful next time and that things could've been a lot worse!

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	At 05:49 pm eric101106 Said :	0
	I guess that I just feel so bad cuz I want to rip him apart with words but i know that won't solve anything. I already told him that if he would stop thinking about him and his computer all the time it wouldn't have happend. But yes baby is ok I don't know if he did a 360 but his nose looked broken and we took him to x rays they said it was fine but to keep an eye out for internal bleeding...so scar i hate living in an upstairs apt. The windows up here go from floor to top so I just might have to put bars on the windows...way to high up

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