i actually prefer being an outsider or standing out. because i'm unique i'm the most annoying girl in 9th grade at my school and thats my rep. if i were to change myself i would fit in, and i hate that. but i am trying to be more mature and i am still this unqiue girl who is gonna mix and match till her death!
i think being true to yourself, whether it is mainstream or out of this world, is the most important thing you could ever do in your life. who cares what others think? who else will live your life for you but you?
yes for the most part i do think standing out is better than fitting in, unless this means standing out in a negative light, like theadult equivalent of a child who throws a tantrum for attention
You know, there are so many different outlooks of standing out..Because everyones opinion makes them unique. Because you feel a different meaning or sense to the word unique. And just because you smoke, or drink or anything. Doesnt mean you cant be yourself because..If thats who you really are, then thats who you shall be. The only person that controls you is you. And dont ever let anyone tell you something is impossible or you cant do it, because you can if you try.
hmmm interesting tots..
For me, standing out then do good things for the all man kind is a real STAND OUT. Fitting in for survival purpose is a clever thing to do, EXCEPT IF Fitting in meanings trying to fit in a group with bullying the helpless ... so either way...if its for the good of human kind, i think its not bad having the 2.