Ok, so it's been just over a month since the VA Tech Massacre but for us, it may as well have happened yesterday. My fiance went to school with one of the victims and my son is buried on the same road the psycho bought his gun. Not to mention we only live 25 minutes away from TECH, some of my friends went to school there, and I've been there myself for cheerleading. I can't help it, but it still gets to me and still bothers me. Advice on how to look past it all???