At 10:45 am becca0948 Said :	0
	it was also because of some of the things i said and my accent they assume im the same person, they missed out on 5 years, they have a lot of catching up to do

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	At 10:44 am becca0948 Said :	0
	i felt like shit because they just looked at me and was like oh your still the same rebecca and i was like uhhh no i dont look the same because they were judging me for what i had looked like instead of the inside, they said what they said because the last time they saw me i was still 4'11 and i still am today, i felt bad because he didnt stick around long enough to get to know me and that i did change, i said something to him as well, i told him "do not judge me please because youve been with me for 10 minutes, you havent seen me in 5 years, you know nothing about me now or what type of person i am" then he kind of shut up and realized that i was different and i did change

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	At 10:43 am medestigo Said :	0
	...but you never thought that that superficial judge maybe was about your body? And that it may have been only a ready-made sentence? or kind by them to tell you that you look (as young and beauty) as time wasn't passed?

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	At 10:40 am medestigo Said :	0
	hi girls! Nice to see you again, LadyGangsta and Rebecca!! So, both of you were disturbed of being hit by superficial judgements.. How did you feel? Like all the time past was not considered? All your efforts were not seen? And what did you do: correct them or leave them into the false (but quiet) opinion?

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	At 10:24 am LadyGangsta Said :	0
	It happened to me last week, you see I moved away for three years and now I'm back, I live in a REALLY SMALL town, well everytime I go to the store someone I used to know is there, well the girl at the cash register said, "Hey I know you!" and I didn't remember her so I responded, "Oh do you?" she said, "Of course you haven't changed a bit." Please take into account that I've had a kid.

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	At 10:19 am becca0948 Said :	0
	yes, happend to me this weekend, it pissed me off....i met my friend again that moved to Austria and he was like "o i see your the same ol Rebecca" i was like wtf does that mean? pissed me off because he hasnt seen me in 5 years and he doesnt know how i am or what im about now

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	In response to VeryBerryHolly At 10:09 am medestigo Said :	0
	your comment allowed me to understand one more thing: while I was only joking, she told me that thing pointing to myself, not to my humor: "You were the same" not "your humor is the same"..! "Nice" thing, yeah?

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	At 09:35 am VeryBerryHolly Said :	+1
	she might have just implied that your humor has not changed...but your right, humor is the mask that allows you to hide everything underneath it. just a *meeting* isn't going to show her that you have changed and if she's close minded type, she won't know that you've changed around your humor.

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	In response to fuseek At 07:55 am medestigo Said :	0
	don't you think that it would be better to let her in her equilibrium that she created...and to try to change it only if needed, only if her way to see me makes me some problem?

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