I don't mean to criticize, and I don't know your situation at all...but just a note from experience...It was a waste of breath for me. I'd rather meet someone Like Harriet Tubman, I'd just ask her what it was like to do what she did...like how scary it was, how did she hide i certain situations, how did she come about this plan...etc. I've heard it all in books...but I think it would be amazing to meet the lady herself. :)